Significance of the havan Samagri The ghee, capoor and chandan offered to the Fire God symbolise burning of the ego. Agarbatti and dhoop are the sweet scents of hope and prosperity and are used for welcoming. The diya represents the goddess Laxmi who blesses the couple with prosperity. The betel leaves and nuts are a sign of purity. Haldi is used for its healing touch and its association with purity. Sindoor, the symbol of a suhagan, is for her husband’s protection. Mauli is also a symbol of safety and protection. Some Rites and Rituals Madhupark : The beginning of the ceremony where the bride feeds her groom a sweet mixture of honey, curd, and ghee is a sign of her unconditional devotion to him. Go-daan : The bride’s parents present the couple with a cow for lifelong prosperity and good health. These days a glassful of milk suffices! Shilarohan : The bride’s mother places her daughter’s right foot on a rock or stone while the groom chants a mantra. The rock stands for stability and permanence, denoting the bride’s position in the groom’s life. Lajahom : Puffed rice, a symbol of prosperity and material wealth is sacrificed into the havan. The bride’s brother plays a significant role in this ritual. He stands behind the couple as his sister places her hands into the groom’s. The brother puts the puffed rice into his sister’s hands and then the couple offer it to the fire together.